For separated & divorced parents

Say it once.
Say it calmly.

Between Us checks a message's tone before it sends, keeps one shared record neither of you can quietly edit, and turns weeks of back-and-forth into a plain summary — so conversations about your kids stay about your kids.

14-day trial. No card required to start.
Before you send
"You ALWAYS do this. I'm done covering for your mistakes."
↓ tone check ↓
"Pickup ran late again — can we set a backup plan for next time?"
StormyCalm
How it works

Three steps, every time.

Nothing to configure — the same short loop for every message.

01

Write your message

Draft what you need to say about your child, the same way you always would.

02

Check the tone

See a plain read on how it will land, and a calmer rewrite, before anyone else sees it.

03

Send, on the record

It lands in one shared thread you both can always see — kept exactly as sent, permanently.

What's included

Everything lives in one place.

No separate apps for messaging, scheduling, and record-keeping.

Messaging

A shared, permanent thread

Every message is visible to both parents and can never be edited or deleted once it's sent — a record you can both actually rely on.

Tone check

Catch it before it sends

A quick, private read on how a message will land, with a calmer rewrite offered — you choose what actually gets sent.

Mediator summary

Weeks of messages, one page

Turn a long thread into a plain summary: what was discussed, what's agreed, and what's still open — with no side taken.

Calendar

One schedule, both parents

Pickup times, appointments, and changes — visible to both, with each parent managing what they've added.

Export

A record when you need one

Turn the thread into a PDF and email it to yourself, a lawyer, or a mediator, any time — every export is logged for both parents to see.

Access

Your own login, always

Each parent signs in separately. Nothing about your account or your side of the thread depends on the other parent's device.

Worth knowing

A plain record, not a legal one.

Between Us isn't a substitute for legal or clinical advice, and a thread on its own isn't a court filing. What it is: a calmer way to communicate day to day, and an honest, unedited record of what was actually said — if you ever need to show one. If you or your child are ever in immediate danger, contact local emergency services.

Pricing

One plan per family, either way.

Both parents share a single workspace — you're never billed per person.

Basic
$19/month
  • Shared thread with tone check
  • Shared calendar
  • PDF export, once a month
  • Email support
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